|POSITIVE x NEGATIVE = a NEGATIVE|
Even mathematics proves it; if you are a POSITIVE person and you are around a NEGATIVE person you will BECOME A NEGATIVE PERSON.
And when you are NEGATIVE it directly affects your life and your health; studies show the more negative a person is, the more prone they are to getting sick more often; which can directly affect their family and their job.
And, when your family and job get affected you have to make changes.
I am a very POSITIVE PERSON but I am also a very Sensitive Person, which means I take things very personal; so when people around me are NEGATIVE it really affects me a lot. And for many years I let NEGATIVE PEOPLE really affect me without even knowing it; every time I was around them I would get REALLY TIRED and CRANKY and SAD.
Then one day I realized these NEGATIVE PEOPLE were causing this and I was letting them; so I decided to change the way I dealt with NEGATIVE PEOPLE.
The biggest problem were the ones who were my family members, people I love and co-workers; I could not just cut them out of my life, so I had to learn how to DEAL with them and not get NEGATIVE myself.
The BEST WAYS I learned to DEAL with NEGATIVE PEOPLE was in SMALL DOSES:
How I keep the conversation on my POSITIVE PATH?
In an experiment by Arthur Stone at the University of New York, a new angle has been uncovered.
More Proof Negativity effects Our Health
Once you can recognize the NEGATIVE PEOPLE in your life, the sooner you will be able to start changing their influence on you. So you can be more POSITIVE to achieve your dreams, and have a happier and healthier life.
The prayer of St. Francis:
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
Posted by Tammy Taylor at 7:18 PM